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Happy26-Good luck on scheduling and I hope that it happens for you soon if you desire! I plan to let everyone know how this area has been impacted as it has been one of my biggest symptoms. Never had that problem prior to the TL. Like you, I have had times that I had limited libido but has never been the same since the TL! I go in 2 1/2 weeks for my TR. I will keep you all posted! Best wishes to all, Emily
I have noticed the same thing. Before my TL I was okay afterwards I noticed that I was not interested anymore. I was 22 when I got my TL and I am now 27. I was thinking that it is because of the TL. Don't get me wrong I still have my moments but not as often. I am currently saving up for my TR to be able to concieve again and the added bonus of hopefully getting my libido back!!
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Yea!!!! Thanks for that Heather! I like your story about your DH being able to find relief in the TR, too!!! Thanks also for the encouraging timeframe of just one week after your TR! I hope that I can match that! Take care, Emily
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LOL I thought it was just me. I had no sex drive after TL. About a week after TR I started to notice a difference. DH was so funny because he would tease me by coming over and kissing my neck. He could drive me crazy just by doing that. He thought is was great. LOL He was also proud of himself for being able to turn me on again. Men!!! LOL Trust me, it gets better! Heather
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hopenow '' that was the top one in my list '' I do notice that I have more energy and want to do more '' used to sleep all day and now I go to bed at 11 and up by 7 with out an alarm '' crazy but true '' my hubby is amazed ''
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i did! i did! prior to tr, no drive at all. afterward, it was like attack(all caps)!!!!!! now the lost of the drive is back. but it is probably due to bf'g and birth control.
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I havent been far enough out from surgery to tell you for sure. My desire totally cycles, PMS time it's down. When I start AF it's WAY up (which is NOT fair). This time when I had PMS I still had a distinct increase in my sex drive though (despite all the headaches), which I thought was kinda neat! I cant say that the TL affected me much, once I hit my 30's my sex drive went through the roof, and I was 27 when I had my TL. I dont know why, maybe I just got more comfortable with myself.
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Thanks ladies! Just something to look forward to...I am sure that my libido could not be lower right now! I certainly did not have that problem pre TL...here's hoping to full restoration of libido post TR!!!! Emily
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well ..I will say about me ...I have been remarried now for 7 years and my tubal was done in 95 and before T/R it was like 2 time a week or sometimes less than that ''My D/H not happy '' Since T/R in May 29th it has been way better '' I can't say for sure if it was the T/R but Hey '' my husband is not complaining ''LOL''
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I wish I could help you with this question. I lost my desire before TL. I got it back after I met my new husband following my divorce. I can say that TR did not hinder it any way. Seems like there are a lot of ladies here that were affected by TL and TR. I'm sure they will chime in soon. Good Luck.