I'm just looking for some input on a personal dilemma...I'm 44, DH is 34 (no prev. kids) DD is 22yrs, DS is 17. I have not told anyone about my upcoming surgery (Jan 27) and wasn't planning to until we get our BFP....but..I'm having doubts about that. I am hesitating because I don't think my family will be supportive...at all. Even my DD will not be in favour. I wanted to hold off telling them to save myself some stress until the surgery is over but I hate lying/ keeping secrets. I'm sure my sister and mother will have negative things to say as well. The usual, you're too old, why do you want to be tied down again...etc etc. On the other hand we are very happy about the decision and I feel like I want to share it....I really don't know what to do! Has anyone gone through this situation? Any input would be appreciated.
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