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If anyone is interested, please feel free to join our "Over 35 TTC" thread for support for us "older" women. Also, you can email me at my same screenname here at aol dot com.
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HI, I am 44 and nervous. I only have 1 ovary and 1 tube. I had my TL almost 12 years ago. I can only wait to hear from the surgeon now as to if I am even a candidate for TR since I only have 1 tube and 1 ovary. I am in excellent condition otherwise. Rob is a state trooper and I am a registered nurse, we are in a good place in life and having a child would only make things better. Some people can be really nay sayers when we share our plan to try and have a baby. After Reading all the posts from the other women my age here I feel much better about our choice. Thank you for sharing your stories.
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Good luck ladies... its not going to be an easy road. I got pregnant at the drop of a hat before TR - one of the most fertile women I knew. I thought it would be easy again after TR.. but its been over 2 years and I just turned 44 on Wednesday. I have had a multitude of tests that all say both tubes are wide open, everything works and is healthy, and I have clockwork cycles - so no reason why other than age. All I can say is be pro-active and have a doctor you can trust and work with - one that agrees with your decision to TTC over 40 - they can be hard to find.
I'm 49 and just had my tubal reversal on 6/17/2010. My "honey" is 10 years younger than me and doesn't have any children. We so desperately want one! I know what my chances are of getting pregnant, but at least now that I had the TR there's a chance. I pray and leave it all in Gods hands! My advice to "almost 45 and contemplating TR"...go for it! CHRC is awesome!
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I am 44 and had my TR of a fimbriectomy on May 4. Both tubes are 3.5cm. Just had my first menstrual cycle and waiting to start baby making. Taking all my supplements and using pre seed, sperm friendly personal lubricant. Go for it!!!!
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I am 44 and have been thinking about TR for a long time. My TL was 20 years ago. I was 21, with 3 kids. since then have adopted 4 wonderful babies (ages 7, 6, 3, 2). want so much to be pregnant agian. am i being selfish? I LOVE being a mom!!
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I had my TR when I was 45, 5/13/09. Just turned 46. No BFP, but much needed relief from PTLS. I just stopped BBT and charting with the beginning of this cycle. Haven't had HSG, but I feel that my tubes are open due to just the changes with PTLS. Not sure if we are going to check tubes due to the fact that I cannot have HSG due to allergic reactions to contast/dye, GYN wants to check by laparoscopy and I don't want that. Would like to have SHG or HyCoSy, but GYN doesn't think that these two procedures are conclussive. Though my FSH was 4 just before TR and had it checked about a month and a half ago it was at 6. All hormones are awesome and GYN says that I am nowhere near "minipaws" (meow). Just going on, no more "trying"...if it happens it happens.
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Hi there. I am a 42 year old woman and my husband and I have been married for 8 years (together for 10years). I have 2 children from previous marriage of whom are graduating this year and one is getting married. My husband now is 6 years younger than I and now decided that he for sure wants a child..I am hesitant because my children are grown. I love children..but scared of the risks of motherhood after 40 and the reversal itself. Any help with my frame of mind from anyone would help...Thanks MI Mom
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Hi everyone, I am 42 years old and waiting for my tax return next month to schedule a TR. I am nervous and scared, I had my tubes tied right after the birth of my son, 6 years ago. My husband and I discussed the TR and both of us want to proceed. I hope I get pregnant a few months after the reversal. Anyone with positive feedback ? please talk to me. Anyone with a successful pregnancy after TR ?
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I am waiting on figuring out my taxes...if I have enough money....its a go. 45....and hopeful! I figure this...if if do it I have a chance ...maybe a slim chance, but a chance, that I wouldnt have if I didnt have the reversal. I feel its meant to be...so Im all in!