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When my DH went in for the SA a very loud nurse waited until he got right in front of the nurses station where all of the nurses (hot ones he said) were sitting and said to him in her booming voice "You're here for the semen sampling?" My husband being the confident man he is replied back "Why no actually, I have never and will never sample any semen. I can certainly produce a sample on demand though!" LOL! We have had more fun telling that story!
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Girls....I guess it's true! We can't live with em....can't live without em either! MEN!!!
Me and my husband just talked about our lucky month last night. He laughed when I reminded him that I called him when he was out with his friends to remind him of the dark purple line on my opk! I also reminded him of the Monday Night Football game on tv.
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This is my first weekend TTC. DF was here with me in NC friday, sat, sun. And just for good measure I drove up to Maryland yesterday to surprise DF. I have never been over sexually active but for some reason this cycle its all Ive been thinking about, and not just for getting pg purposes. DF used to get frustrated because I dont think of it as often as he does, but a funny thing happened last night. He said "Honey, I never thought I'd say this but, Im all sexed out." I about fell to the floor, this is a side to him Ive never seen lol. Sorry if its TMI. Just thought it was funny.
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Suggestion: Candles, a bottle of wine/ or bubbly, soft music ( shhhhhhh kids are sleeping) and a nice lil nighty, some messaging oil, maybe some treats like some assorted cut up fruits, choclates, whipping cream. heheheh have fun hunney, He'll come around. put the "Spark" back and he'll be beggin for more !!! good luck. Jess
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OKAY - SO TO ALL YOU OPK JUNKIES OUT THERE...
Which test is better? The one with the lines that you pee on, or the saliva one?
I'm through w/my hubby and told him, dude - i'm fertile now.... if YOU don't get me pregnant, SOMEONE will..!!!!!
He just looked at me and rolled his eyes. LOL
I did tell him though... please, don't make me go through all this for nothing - i'm 33 years old. Not TOO old by any means, but I'd like to be pregnant this year, and then try for another one the later part of next year... then be done w/this. It's NOT a chore - hell, I'm the horniest female I know!!!!!! But - my husband, God love him, has the sex drive of a gnat - and I practically have to cry to get him to have sex. Yet he wants a baby.
I tell him all the time, "Honey, despite your opinion, you MUST have sex to get pregnant... and if you want a baby....." *sigh*
Stupid me... I want it all. I just wish I could have sex without begging for it!! lol
My mom says, "You ARE your father's daughter!" Ewwwww, mom... too much info!
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Thanks girls, for some twisted reason it helps to know we are all in the same boat. DH is headed down to DC for a concert and won't be home till around 2 am but promised me he will 'deliver the package' when he gets home. I feel stressed because I am Oing on the 'good side' this month. I got the dark line on the OPK this afternoon. We did the deed last night, but I want more swimmers at the gate for good measure. It's hysterical because before TR he swore that he would be ready and willing for sex at any time at all. HA! Now sometimes he will work it for what seems like an eternity and...no dice! ANNOYING!!! And I am so serious and cracking the whip. Our sex life is ruined, LOL! I should have predicted this problem when I saw what it took to get a semen sample for the analysis before TR. There were many failed attempts and much stress. He gets stage fright I guess. I love him dearly and I have to keep reminding myself that he is smart and funny, a hard worker and so stinking hot that I took one look at him and knew he was the one. Because right now I want to punch him.
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Sounds like most of us are in the same boat. My DH also suggested the TR for more children and I was skepitcal but agreed. Now that I am on a mission to conceive, my DH keeps reminding me how I should relax and let nature take its' course. I am 37, seems like mother nature may be a little tired by this point in my life and if we don't lend her a helping hand she just may fall asleep......like my DH. He is right though.....I am way to uptight......I want it now. Hey, I just had my reversal 03-08-05!!!! LOL
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I agree with with holding info, the last couple times I said I was ovulating, all of a sudden he felt pressured and like a toy, and is tired!! I asked him today if I should use the ovulation kit this month and he said yes, just don't ovulate on a day when I am tired, if it were only that easy, men ugh!!!! Lowie
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Dancy, I just had to laugh reading your post. Men! They agree they want another baby. They claim they understand that there are certain days that are definitey a must to even have truly ttc for that month. And need we mention that they are rip-raring to go any other time, or complaining that they aren't getting enough love if it's been more than two days?!? Then those special days roll around and what do you get? Performance anxiety or my personal favorite, " Honey, I was really taking one for the team that time-I was so not in the mood." So now I don't tell him ANYTHING! If he wants to draw his own conclusions about why I'm sudden in the mood, that's great. But I simply cannot hear about how he's conviently not ready on the meaningful days. Good luck to you! I think we were cycling pretty close together last month. I should have O'd today. Sandie trying for TR baby #2! Cycle 2
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Funny, my DH has our entire family convinced that I "forced" him to do the deed and that's why we are PG. He said I yelled at him and he had no choice but to perform. LOL. Right - if that only worked, we would all be PG!!!
Anyway, I got him involved by letting him see my charts and graphs so he knew the "time" and I didn't have to pester him - or yell... LOL
Hang in there Dancy. When it finally happens, you'll laugh at what it took.
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Dancy, I can relate. All of a sudden the thought of trying to concieve is too much pressure. Pressure...really. Alls he has to do is enjoy it. Fine...I am just going to cut him off.
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Dancy I am having my TR monday and that video scared me as much as having the surgery . I told my DH about it and he acted like he was listening but I am not real sure. I have not really got him to sit down and watch it either. I guess men think like I did so long ago when I just got pg when I wanted to. I didn't even really know that there was only a few days per month that you could get pg. I have researched so much the past year and have learned so much from all of the ladies on here that I feel like a PG expert..lol..Men are just not as well informed as we are. They like to keep things as simple as possible. I am not going to tell my DH when its time to do the deed when we are ttc. I will just do a sneak attack on him. Take care of yourself. We are all here for you. Hugs, Lorie
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