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thank you ladies. my dh and i have given this alot of thought, we are going to try one more time this month and see what happens. no opk's , no iui, no nothing, just good ol' fashion bd'ing. if it doesn't happen this time are going to take break. i guess i shouldn't have said giving up b4, b/c i just meant taking a break and not worrying so much. the reason i mentioned the pill was b/c i figured if i knew i couldn't get pg then i wouldn't stress so much. but again thank you all. cross your fingers and pray. i will do the same for ya'll. baby dust. danyelle
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Danyelle, there has been a posting in the last month or so of a woman who didn't get a BFP for four years and all of a sudden she found herself pregnant. I seee where you can get frustrated!! I say give up the obsession, but why take a pill to prevent it???? You got a TR for a reason and taking the pill is like saying "well you didn't get me pregnant in my time and now I'm not going to trust for your time". Life is a rollercoaster, but God is in the seat beside you!! Leave it to him. You probably say it's easy for you to say cause you probably have one of those TR babys...well I am coming around the corner to my three year anniversary and have not had one BFP yet. I had an HSG and my tubes are both open. I think I would prefer to be able to say I have had a BFP and lost it in a m/c just to know that I can get preg, but I know that is just as much a heartache as no BFP's at all. I couldn't even dream of taking measures to prevent a preg that I want so bad..we become stronger women each month as we go through the heartache and continue to trust God for the outcome. I'm so sorry you are feeling down about TTC but don't give up...we are all here to encourage each other, and we need you just as much as you need us!!! We may not all know each other personally, but we have been through a journey together and many of still journeying. Hang on to each other, and most importantly, trust God and His time. Will be praying for you!!Louise
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Danyelle, We will miss you if you go, wish you wouldn't please say hi once in a while?? It may not go good for me either I'm hoping it does. You know we are trying once more, we aren't doing any IUI or IVF. My mother was begging me yesterday to please have one, I told her we're trying but don't know if it will work.. BUT I'm hanging in there, wish you would too. It might take a while but if you just take it easy and not get too wrapped up in it it will be more fun anyway!!! That's what me and DH are doing. After MC and EP it's the only way. Fun and if it's stressful forget it! I refuse to stress about it. LOL watch you get a good BFP now LOL
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Danyelle, I second what motherof2 said... I considered the same thing when I was frustrated that we had not conceived at our year mark... not a single bfp... and we began to even talk about ivf, but the costs were holding us back too... but it finally happened for us... i started clomid as a "try it first cause it's cheap" option... and we got our bfp... As hard and emotionally painful as it is, the timing thing just isn't in our hands... Hugs and baby dust. Bonnie TR 10-27-06 BFP 2-27-08 TR Baby due 11-5-08
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Hi to all TR sisters. I had my TR on 8/22/06 and it took me 1 yr. & 4 months to get bfp. Just want to encourage everyone that is trying to get bfp. Keep the faith and try and stay positive. I know it can be hard as it was for me. Gods timing is always the right time. I am now 20 w. I had already started looking at having ivf when I found out in Jan. 08 that I was pregnant. I went to Dr. on 12/19/07 ref to ivf & didn't know that I was already pregnant. My GOD is a Awesome GOD!!!! . I also want to thanks Dr. B & the Great staff @ CHTRC for all of the support. Love to all!!!
Me- 34 DH- 37 DD- 18 Senior in High School DD- 16 Junior in High School Due 9/08/2008 TL- 9/1990 TR- 8/22/2006
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Sprocket, Please do not give up. God has a plan. I had my tr on 8/22/06 and it took me 1yr & 4 months to get bfp. I did not know what to do I could not afford the hsg to even check to see if my tubes were open. My DH had also started to get upset as if we had wasted our money on the tr. Always remember our time is not Gods time but his time is the right time. Please try to stay positive!!!!
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well ladies i have decided to stop ttc for a while. i'm even considering the pill for a few months. my one year anniversary is 5/2 and all we have had was 1 bf in dec. and i m/c twins. we know dh has a mobility problem but my dr said it isn't that bad. i just assumed that we would get pg right away and already have one baby and maybe talking about #2, but no. dh and i are so heartbroken. we both have children from previous marriages and we are very thankful, but really want atleast one together. we have tried IUI once and it didn't take, we really don't have the funds to try anything else. our insurance is ****, so naturally is all we have. i want to wish everyone good luck and healthy 9 months. who knows maybe i'll be back sooner than later with good news. goodbye and baby dust to all. danyelle
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