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I wonder why more doctors don't talk to their patients about TL regret. They have to know this is going on. I guess they figure IVF is always an option if we change our mind. But IVF isn't always an option for some of us.
I copied and pasted Gwen's, as my answer is the same.
My TL was the BIGGEST mistake of my life. I had the TR to correct that mistake. Here is a list of why I had a TR, in order of importance 1. To be open to God's will. 2. Get closer to my dh. 3. Correct my PTLS. 4.To be whole again, and 5 lastly to have another baby.
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I had my TR because I got married and wanted a baby with my husband. I have two children from before we were married but he had none. Not only did he want one but we wanted one together. I think that is a fairly common situation. Sometimes I wish they stopped doing TL all together - it seems that so many women end up regretting them!
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Hi, similar to Gwen, I to had found TL the biggest mistake ever. A lack of faith maybe. However, DH and I were blessed to have TR twice. First time both tubes blocked. Second time a success, due to have baby girl in December. God is faithful to the unfaithful!
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My TL was the BIGGEST mistake of my life. I had the TR to correct that mistake. Here is a list of why I had a TR, in order of importance 1. To be open to God's will. 2. Get closer to my dh. 3. Correct my PTLS. 4.To be whole again, and 5 lastly to have another baby.
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I think you will find the majority do it because they want to have another child. And the majority of those have remarried and want to have one with new DH, although some are still with their DH from previous children and just decided they want more. I have only met a very few that have it done strictly for PTLS and aren't interested in having more children. I fit into the majority of women - I am remarried to younger DH with no children and we want one together. Good luck!
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I was curious to find out how many of you have remarried and now want a TR? I read how some women get a TR because of PTLS, but it seems most of us remarry and then want to start a family with our DH.