Don't give up. Find my post from last week in the message board under age and tubal reversal about never having a BFP. I know exactly how you feel. Don't let this come between you and DH. As hard as it is emotionaly keep going. It's not that it's not meant to be maybe, it just isn't the right time. If you need a shoulder to cry on. I am here.
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Lori, CONGRATS to you and dh. I had my tr 4/7/08, as of today no bfp yet. My dh keeps thinking it was not meant to be. I have 2 kids prev. marriage and he has none. every month comes and goes, he keeps asking same question are we preg yet. i hate telling no every month. i am getting depress now that it has not happen, i feel that we are growing apart now. i my self have cried and cried, as i am now. this week has been the hardest on me b/c i am fighting this cold i have had for a week now. i really dont know what to say anymore to him. i love my dh and i dont want us to grow apart over this. sorry for crying and talking on and on. what should i do next.... Leann
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Congratulations! I know you and your dh are so happy. I'll tell ya I'm not to fond of those $ tree tests...I am currently 22 weeks pregnant and used them for this pregnancy...it took them well over a half hour to become positive! Good Luck and keep us posted! Michelle TR 3-6-06 EDD 3-9-09
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Lori you have me in tears at my desk. Congrats to you and DH. I sit here wondering if we will ever get the money together to have TR. I just want the chance to try, thats all.
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Oh Lori, this is just the greatest news for you! I'm 45 with my TR on 9-15-08, and am only just now TTC, but stories like yours make me want to 'kick it up' a notch and work at it even harder! Congratulations!
Last Tuesday October 28th, I was at my computer feeling sorry for myself and I needed support. As, I typed away with tears streaming down my face I shared a story that a lot of us were going through about 1 year TTC and no BFP. I was so grateful for the responses and as I read them I cried for myself and others going through the same thing. I knew AF was due soon and PMS was setting in. I was ready for another cycle to begin. By Thursday I was so sick to my stomach. I thought nerves had finally caught up to me.
Friday morning was Halloween. While getting ready for work I realized AF hadn’t shown up and I still felt really sick. I got out my dollar store pregnancy test. I think I did the test more out of habit than anything else. It’s been my routine to test every month for the last 12 months. The control line came up first so I thought the test was done. Just as I was about to throw it away I thought I saw a faint line. I thought I was going nuts. I had another dollar store test and a Wal-Mart one on hand. I did the dollar store one again. Same thing. I called DH at work to tell him I thought I was losing my mind. I didn’t want him to get over excited but by now the lines were more visible, only you aren’t supposed to read the results after 10 minutes. Of course now I don’t have to pee anymore so I started drinking whatever I could get down fast enough. After soda,water,and a cup of tea with DH still on the phone I was ready for the Wal-Mart test. This was the plus or minus type of test. It was a BFP before the control line was even visible. I saw the plus sign immediately. Dh came home and I called in sick to work. I knew we had to move fast considering it was a Friday and I didn’t want to wait all weekend.
Friday 10/31/2008 HCG 139 Monday 11/03/2008 HCG 681 (Mine and DH first wedding anniversary)
Next BW, Ultrasound and office visit are tomorrow.
Thank you all for the support and prayers. Within a matter of days my life has changed.
If I can be of any help and support to anyone here. Please contact me. I do understand. loridudeck@yahoo.com
God Bless and Baby Dust to All,
Lori
Me 42 (43 next month) TR 10/08/2007 DH 50 (no biological kids) DS 15 DS 14 DD 14 twins DD 10
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