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Cindy '' I am Laughing my butt off '''' My office staff must think I am crazy ''' that is too much '' Mines now are old enough to know what happens when they hear the latch go on'' but I don't want it to be soo Obvious ''hehehe ''
Ida '' Yes I guess it is true'' we learn from our mistakes '' but what a hard lesson it is ''
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Maria, On my 21st bday I was signing the papers for tl. I also had 3 kids by then. I was very young and didn't realize what I was doing. I've been with my DH for 6 years, he was actually my first boyfriend but life took us in different directions until 6 years ago. Now we would like to have a child together.
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LOL, good point, how do we find time to BD? I am not sure! Actually the kids are all pretty self sufficient, the ones I have with me at the moment are almost DD almost 9, x's DS 13, DS 14, DD 17, DSS 18. They keep each other busy a good portion of the time. It's when I have one that is all alone that I dont get any peace cause they get bored.
I have to tell you though. Last night we had been in bed for awhile trying to go to sleep. Then it turned into trying to BD. The kids were watching a movie. I had locked the bedroom door but obviously didnt shut it tight enough. So my 14 year old son knocked but then proceeds to walked IN! DH and I jumped at least a mile, I am certain of it. Then DS started screaming so then all the kids knew and they were all screaming but I told them that DH was just looking at my incision from my TR to make sure it looked ok but my son did NOT buy it. lol He said he knew what he saw and I said he had it all wrong. lol
I was so embrrassed. I thought for sure the door was totally locked and shut so we were NOT PREPARED! It certainly killed the mood for a little while. Oh and my poor son. lol
Maria-I know what you mean. I was married TWICE before and it was always UGH. But my DH now is my best friend. We actually like being together.
I got my positive OPK this afternoon, so I am ready to start trying BD for real!
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Tonia, you are too funny and i can relate to the "knock knock" on the door and yelling out "mom" when trying to BD. My DSS is 7 and it almost seems as he knows, he can go all day without needing one of us, until that time comes. I didn't realize how many of us go through that. Much baby dust to all
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Cindy, With all the kids home, how in the world are you going to BD like crazy haha! I O'd on Saturday and DH tried BDing like 3 times and each time came with a "Mom...where are you?" "Dad, can you fix this"...and of course Knock, knock on the bedroom door...so we gave up and took the opportunity when we finally could (when the youngest were finally asleep) And we were almost too exhausted to even try
Maria and Ida, I'm positive you ladies are not alone in your thoughts! My youngest is turning 17 next month. My DSS is turning 7 in a few weeks but my body has not experienced this in a LONG time! Until scheduling the TR I couldn't even tell you when I O'd...semi tracked AF just to be ready for her but nothing else. This is all so new and to realize I am in better tune with my body at 42 than I was at 22 is crazy! I'm a bit of a baby when it comes to pain, and here we are contemplating child birth! Best of luck to all BD'ing!!!! Tonia
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Cindy '' You are too much and no it not funny to miss your DH while in class '' I talk to my husband at least 3 times a day while at work '' I have been married since 2002 and living together since 2001..He is my best friend Some can not believe that we are still like newly weds '' they believe that we just got together "LOL"" I was married before for 10yrs and was ready to hang my self ''hugh''
and you are going to have all 7 kids '''you go girl''' I had 6 back when I was married to my ex'' 3 of his with prior and 3 of ours '' I could not send them back '' I had sponsor them from Dominican Republic '' They now live in PA '' the oldest is now married and has 2 kids of her own ''do the math '' I am 35 and ex kids are 22/21/20 and mines 19/17/14 that was insane '' and that was the reason he wanted me to get a T/L ...I was only 21 yrs old ''then he went and had another one she is around 9 yrs old with another woman ..I regret having my tubes tied ''I was to young he should have had himself fixed sorry had to vent there '' hehehe''
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We had the same conversation last time. Our BFPs will come in Gods time.
I have class tonight (Im in college) and I dont want to go at all. Im excited that I have almost all my kids together for summer break, including my youngest step son from my last marriage (he will be here for 12 days). I cant wait for two of DH's kids to come back, it will be a blast. I will have seven kids here then. Im enjoying my time with them.
Plus, isnt it sad, that I miss my DH while I am at school?
Plus I really dont like my class, it's too complicated and ambiguous. Blah, but I have to go.
O time is almost here for me. I can really feel it today. Lots of O cramping. So time to BD like crazy.
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Maria, I understand what you're saying. My DH and I are having th same conversations. My youngest just turned 14 on friday, so its also been a long time for me. I have faith that it will happen.
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Morning '' I am on CD26 and cramping I had the conversation with my husband that we should not get discourage about not getting a BFP this month '' and that we can try again..he is a little disappointed and doubt himself about will it ever happen '' I do too '' sometimes '' But I feel it's natural '' It has been 14.5 years since I have had a baby .and we need to give my body time to remember how to do this '' LOL"" I also told him that we have no control over this '' God does '' It does not matter how much in charge you think you are God is bigger'' All we have to do is continue to pray and ask him for his blessing''
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Good Morning, Hope everyone had a wonderful holiday. I just want to give an update, af showed thursday so i'm on cd5. We'll be trying again this month. Hope it works
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I am waiting for O. I know it will be soon as I can feel my body gearing up for it. Then it's that long TWW again. I know how you feel Maria, I felt like that last month. I just wanted AF to hurry up so I could get it over with and try again.
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