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Louise, its good to hear from you. I am glad you and DH are getting back on track. I don't think I can ever leave here completely. I just needed a break from the daily regimine and get away from the stress. Plus the same old drama gets old after a while (not in our thread, but others). So I will always stop in and say hi.
Today is my and DH's wedding anniversary, as well as my birthday (trying to ignore that one). And I had a follicle scan this morning as well, and I actually have some follicles growing - one big one. I credit the metformin to helping kick my hormones back in. I hope it works this month! Wish me luck!
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Hi ladies, I haven't been on here much, since we have not BD'd since April, this whole Baby project has been on the back burner. When I got my BFP, DH was nervous about BD'ing, like it might knock something loose...And then I miscarried, and he has been unwilling to be intimate again. This morning, he said he is ready to start trying again. I am happy that he is ready, but still feeling angry that I was shut out like that. I mean, there are other reasons for a man and woman to be intimate besides making babies! I just keep trying to keep in mind that he was hurt by the loss, just as I was, and he had to deal with it in his own way. Anyway, if any of you ladies are feeling down about month after month of TTC- at least you can be thankful that you have an active partner in your attempt! Look for your silver lining anywhere you can. For me, it's to know I did conceive once, and hopefully I can again- with any kind of cooperation from DH!!
Amber, I can feel your pain about your DD starting so early! I don't think it's fair to her to have to deal with that so very young. She is very lucky to have a mom that loves her and will support her through this. And you have support from all of us here! I have heard the same thing about it coming younger and younger because of chemicals in our food- I really don't know if that's true or not, but it seems possible for sure. I was nearly 14 when I started, and both of my daughters started at 12. But my mother started at 11...so I don't know what to make of it. I had a friend in school that started at 9- that was SEVERAL years back, LOL. I think there are always a few girls who just start early.
Caroljean, I am glad to still see you posting! Thank you for always sharing your wisdom with us- it means so much to me!
Miranda, I appreciate your faithfulness and patience. I know you are much younger than I am, but you have an "old soul" with your willingness to just allow God to have his way in your life. It is hard for any of us to surrender our own wants and wishes, and yet- we really have little control over our body in all it's many functions.
Mersa, I pray that your struggles will finally come to an end and you find your answers soon, and are blessed with all you hope for.
Take care everyone, I hope we all have a good day today.
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although I do not post much anymore, thank you ladies for support when needed and keeping the list. I had to long on this am to see why af hasn't showed yet. I'm day 30 now, but not sure my O date...must have been late b/c my lp phase unmedicated like this cycle is 10 days....
Blessings to all...just glad I had the list to go to for point of reference.
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Mersa, I think the lap is a good idea. It will be painful at first and uncomfortable for a few days, but you will recover quickly - and its better to know everything is okay. I had a feeling that if BFN then it was cysts - they will give you a positive OPK as well. you can go on birth control for a month and it will help get rid of them. Several women that I know that have gotten them from clomid have done that successfully. The b/c will also help regulate your cycle back again. If you have a lap they will probably do a D&C to clean you out and pop the cysts anyway though. Then you can at least try naturally for a few months until you go for IVF. I say its worth a try.
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Hello to all of you, I hope ya’ll had a spectacular weekend, Sure I did. I went to the RE office today they just diagnose me as Clomid Failure and inexplicable Infertility :( with the VS , he saw a 3 cysts ( 16mm each one) on my left ovary ; it might be ready by 3 - 4 days, RE will not give me more Clomid. He can’t explain me why I haven’t had my Af till now, predicting that when this eggs gets expulsed ; if I don’t get pregnant by then, I will have my Af in 2 more weeks.( whatever, he say that I will have my AF 14 - 15 days after the HCG Shot and I didn’t :mad: Re didn’t prescribe me Prometium neither. He explain us DH and me that next step will be the laparoscopy but my DH doesn’t want me to go thru pain again; I think will be better make the Laparoscopy and Hysteroscopy and find out if the tubes are functional, and if they are; then go for the super Ovulation because my insurance pays for it, IVF It can be done by October and is a big chance to get pregnant; But I am so confuse now, what should I do? Wait to have the surgery done and try again in the natural way? Or do What DH wants IVF? Please help. I need some advises. I am sacred of first: Multiple pregnancies with IVF and fail again as I fail with the Tubal reversal, a year pass and I haven’t give him a baby. :( :mad:
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Ladies I hope everyone is doing well tonight. I pray you all have a good week ahead. It is time for me to sign up for my next classes tomorrow. Pray for me. I hope I can get all that I need and get the ones I want.
Hang in there everyone. We will see those BFPs soon. I just know you will. Miranda
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Miranda and Amber....that is so sad. Not just that the girls had babies, but that someone would take advantage of such a young child. Sickening.
Mersa, good luck with the lap. That is what I had done last cycle. You will be asleep as it is minor in/out surgery, so you won't feel anything. But be prepared to rest for a few days after - it can be very uncomfortable. Good luck!
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Hello, Hope you guys had a bless and peaceful 4th of July, I haven’t had my AF yet, for that reason I can’t up date, I don’t know in what status I am right now, LOL , I have to go to the Dr. Tomorrow to find out why. This has never happen to me before. This morning I had an OPK and was negative, I think that’s good?! I will let you guys know 2morrow about what is going on. This next August 25th, I will have a Laparoscopy with an exploratory with a Hysteroscopy, sounds painful but prior to IVF, I need to go thru all this so let’s see what happens now. Some advises before surgery?
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Miranda, I went to school with a girl that was prego at 9....she is now my age and has an 18 year old son...that is too terrifying to even think about right now.
Amber I went to school with a girl who was having a baby at the age of 8. I still remember the shock of that news. If your dad is anything like mine he has it covered. I love my dad, he is ok with talks. Me for one, I start at 15.My little one will be 6 this year and I have been trying to decided on when to start covering all this stuff. One hard thing about being moms. I will be praying for her and hope hers are the nice kind.
I cleaned the church today and even mowed some of the yard. Felt good to get out side for awhile. Have good safe fun today everyone. Miranda
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