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Thank you girls for all your support and checking in...
I wanted to share with my friends what road my journey has taken...I have been spotting and went into the doctor's office on Tuesday. I was sent for an U/S immediately. My doctor informed me that I had miscarried and my baby had not shown any growth since my last U/S, almost two weeks ago...no HB either. She says this all probably happened right after my last U/S that showed HB and progress. My body hasn't reacted completely to the MC, so I am scheduled for a D/C on Tuesday. I might react naturally and only time will tell.
As you girls know, I have had a tough time from the get-go, but would of taken everyday with pain and ache to just have had a better outcome. Yet that was not in the plan I have no control over, and I except that. It's devistating and hard, but I have to give it to the only one who has a hand on my life and hope that he guides me to better days ahead. I live on his will and am very hopeful of what his plan is for me and my family.
I guess I don't have to say "take me off of the 2010 list"...because I was never put on it.
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Don't me to barge in but I wanted to offer some help on the leg cramps. You can try eating a banana a day, upping your calium intake and what helped for me was taking 500 mg's of magnesium a day. Maybe talk to your dr about it but that's what the dr recommended for me and it was a lifesaver!
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Evierey I hope you can get some sleep, and I also hope the same for me. Its a little after 1 now and the leg pain has started so I took some pills. Im very tired so I hope I can fall asleep fast tonight. It glad to see everyone one else is doing good. Its been raining here for a few days now so we have been stuck in the house. I went to sleep around 4:30am and got up at 6:45. I was shocked to see that I was not tired, I just wanted to clean. I got all the bed covers washed, even moved them out to clean the dust. Cleaned all the fan and windows, mop all the floors, and I took my covers off my coutch and washed them since my kids had spilled juice on them. On top of all that i cooked 3 meals. Its glad to sit here and everything be done. Now Im tired so I hope all the cleaning will help me sleep. I do have back pain now but didnt feel it until I sit down. Ok Im going to read the other post and will talk to you all later.
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khadija- sounds like restless leg syndrome to me. I don't know what to do for that. IWhen my legs ache I just take some tylenol and just pray that it goes away. During my first trimester I could not sleep at all, I tossed and turned and just couldn't sleep. I slept better during the day than I did at bed time. I would get up and lie on the couch and watch tv so not to wake DH. I am so sorry to hear that you sre going through that. I knwo how tired you must be. I have a 11, 13 and 15 year old and I am always exhausted. Keeping up with them and my school it is tiring. I don't know how I am going to survive a baby!! LOL.I don't know if I can explain what paprika feels like; almost like little bubbles just a bit stronger... Paprika is mostly at the bottom of my belly, below my belly butoon but right above the TR incision. It is like butterflies, just with powerful wings...
babymamawannab.. when is your due date? I am 16 weeks today. Due April 28th by the last monthly April 22nd by the U/S. I felt Paprika move for the first time at about 12 or 13 weeks, I thought it was gas at first, but after two or three nights of the same feeling i knew that it was my baby... I get to feeling the baby more and more as the days go by. I just can not wait till DH and the kids can feel the baby moving and kicking...
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Can you change the HR to 158-160 lounangie Me-30,DH-30,DD-9,DS-8 TL-8 Years Ago TR-6/9/09 RT-5cm,LT-3CM BFP,9/10/09 14dpo 21, 16dpo 72, 20dpo 431 31dpo U/S seen baby heart rate 158-160 ~~EDD 5-22-10
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Hey Shawna.....I'm still hangin in here...38 weeks tomorrow. I've been 2cm for 3 weeks. Hopefully lil EJ will come out to the worle soon. Blessings and hope all is well!
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hello ladies i hope everyone is doing well. i haven't been on cause my computer got lots of viruses. and my kids are always on the laptop doing their homework. hello and welcome to our new ladies. i saw that rita had asked to be added and no update had been done since so i went ahead while i was here.
so welcome Rita Mae
so suga how are you? you are about ready to have a bouncy baby boy anyday now. (well unless i've been gone so long that you have already annouced that he came in early.)
Cindy how's everything with you? i know you must be getting very anxious. i know i am. Paytan is laying hip to hip so i am measuring small. so the next appt for me will be another u/s so see if they think i'm going to need a c section. i say she's just like her daddy a procrastinator(sp?)she does move alot, a heck of alot more than my other 2 children.
Desiree i'm glad to hear all is well with you i didn't see any current updates though i just quickly glanced at the other post. so how is everything going?
and all you other ladies it is great to see so many happy proud mommy's on here stay healthy
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sugagrl143 Me - 33, DH - 39, DS x4, DD x1 TL - 4/2003 TR - 2/17/2009 Rt - 4.5cm Lt - 5.5cm BFP - 3/18/2009 Boy name Evangalistia Thomas Jr. Blue Team! ~~EDD - 11/27/2009
Cindy0714 TR 2-24-09 R5cm L5.5cm ME-36,DH-31,DS-18,DS-16,DD-14 BFP-4/24/09 If I have a girl- ?? Reese If I have a boy- James Dennis Jr. 3D u/s 7-18-09 - It's a BOY!!! Blue Team! ~~EDD 1/2/10
armywife4 Me- 32 TR 12/27/2006 R& L 6 DH- 32 DS- 14 DD- 12 DD- 8 DS- 6 TR Baby #1 Benjamin Josiah born 10/20/2007 TR Baby #2 due Jan 6, 2010 1st #'s 17 DPO 2738 2nd #'s 20 DPO 10980 1st u/s 20 DPO- saw gestational sac and yolk sac 2nd u/s measured 10wks 1 day Blue Team! ~~EDD 01-06-10
My names Morna Im 41 / husband is 35. Have 3 children aged 21, 20 and 16 ( plus a 16 yr old foster daughter) and live in the uk. Surgery was 2/11/08. Im due 17th jan 2010. Lmp 04/16/09 Had BFP 05/23/09 Had first hcg bloods 05/29/09...52,142!!! Which suprised me. Having scan 8.15am 06/2/09. ( wish me luck!)I was told back in January that IVF was my only option and that i wasnt ovulating! ~~EDD 1/17/10
kklna5 me 35 (tr 7-8-04 6.5 both sides) dh 47 dd 16 dd 14 dd 13 dd 12 ds 11 BFP march 29 05 a month after dh got home from Iraq m/c april 05 (Almost 6wks) BFP may 26th 05 twins when we went for 1st u/s then we went for second and we had 1 little bean so TR baby #1 was born 1/27/06 LJ then BFP may 17th u/s may 27th showed our little bean safe and sound next u/s is June 17th ~~EDD 1-22-10
ismagirl age 35 ds 13 dd 12 dh31 TR 12-03-08 R4cm L6.5cm BW 14dpo=596 bw16dpo=1542 ultra sound scheduled for Monday June 1 we have Gestational and yolk sac symetrical and measuring 4wks 5 days. u/s tuesday June 9th saw heartbeat we are having a Girl -Paytan Nicole PINK TEAM! ~~EDD 1-30-10
BuckeyeMama (Jamie) Me - 30,DH - 30 (no biological kids),DS-11,DS-8 TR 3-12-09 R7.5cm L7.5cm 1st BFP 6/1/09 at 9 DPO 1st BW 20 2nd bw 83 3rd bw 583 US 6/12 - saw gestational sac UA 6/26 - saw baby and heard heartbeat ~~Angel Baby Zoey
georgiamom Me 36, DH 41, DS 18, DS 15, DS 14, DD 8 1/2 months TL 08/1994 TR 06/2007 Lenths 4.5 and 5 Tr baby #1 born 10-16-08 TR Baby #2 1st BW 10dpo 23 2nd BW 16dpo 587 u/s July 1 - Saw sac, yolk sac, and possible fetal pole with heartbeat flicker US July 23 - Saw baby and heartbeat of 174 ~~EDD - 2/20/10
Reinzo TL 1-17-07 after my 4th child 3 c-sections TR 12-11-08 lengths 8.0 and 8.5 Me 33,DH43,DD 15,DD 10,DS 6,DS 2 BFP 6-12-09 1st US 6-26-09 1st BW 70.4, 2nd BW 191.7 and 3rd BW 2303 ~~EDD 2-24-10
gotthebabybug TR 3-11-09 R6cm L6cm EDD 03-10-10 ME-33,DH-31,DS-13,DS-12,DD-8 BFP-6/27/09 If I have a girl- Savannah Skye If I have a boy- Tyler 1st beta: 48, 2nd beta: 180 US 7/16 - saw baby and heard heartbeat ~~EDD 3/10/2010 She's a girl /Jordan Renee Hicks
babymama 35 TR 5/16/07 DH 38,DD 18,DD 16,DD 14,DS 15 months (TR baby #1) US 7/1, next US 7/8 ~~EDD 2/28/10
msjackson 34 DF 30 Proud mom to DD 13,DS 8,DD 7 My TR was 04/01/09 with Dr. M R 6.5cm : L 5.25cm 1st #'s were 805 on 08/31 (went for 2nd draw today)but BFP on Sun.08/30 ~~EDD 05/08/2010
Ang Breed210 Me - 32, DH - 32, DS x3 TL - 7/2004 TR - 2/11/2009 Dr.Berger Rt - 4.5cm Lt - 7.5cm BFP - 8/25/2009 Beta Draws: First 70 at 12dpo, Second 232 at 15 dpo Third 744 at 18 dpo ~~EDD - 05/6/2010
My name is Angela. DH-Danny. DSD-13, DSD-16, DD-11, DD-8, and DD-8. TR was April, 24, 2009. BFP on August 29, 2009. U/S today revealed everything is right where it is supposed to be and we saw a good strong heartbeat. 192 beats per minute. ~~EDD 5-2-2010.
lounangie Me-30,DH-30,DD-9,DS-8 TL-8 Years Ago TR-6/9/09 RT-5cm,LT-3CM BFP,9/10/09 14dpo 21, 16dpo 72, 20dpo 431 31dpo U/S seen baby heart rate 133 ~~EDD 5-22-10
dweldon TR? BFP 10/1/09 1st HCG: EDD: 6-12-10
DMoore I got my BPF on 10/08 My tr was 3/18/09 me26 Dh25 my 1st hcg 62 on 10/10 2nd hcg 233 on 10/13 3rd hcg 550 I have four children from my pre marriage dh has none DD7,DD6,DS4,DS3
Waiting4aBlessing (Vivian) Me-28 DH-29 DDx4 DSx1 TR 05/26/09 Dr. Berger L=3cm R=4cm BFP 09/18/09-our first child together US 10/09/09-saw baby and heart rate of 176 EDD 05/30/10
Khadija Me 32 Dh 33 ( no kids before my TR) TL 1997 TR 3/31/2005 DD 17,DS 13,DD 12 TR #1 DD 3 (2005),TR #2 DS 2 (2007), TR #3 DD 1 (2008),TR #4 in my tubes Feb. 2009 TR #5 EDD Feb. 14, 2010 ( we dont want to know the sex of this baby. We feel it will make it a little more fun.)
Rita tr 8/31/06 ds 14,dd 12 first tr dd born 12/23/07 second tr baby due 5/20/2010
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Paprika---I am 15 weeks and 3 days today. I have been feeling the baby move for a couple of weeks now and hubby is jealous. We are waiting to feel the movement from the outside also. Let me know when it happens for you.
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paprika, Im glad to see yougot to get out and get some freash air. Im 26 weeks and 3 days. I have felt the baby for a long time. Everytime I want DH to feel it, the baby always stops,LOL. Having 3 small babies all 3 and younger DH and I dont get a lot of time together. Tonight after all the kids went to sleep we were talking and looking on the web for car seats. We have to get one for the new baby and the others new a up grade. Anyways as we were looking I felt the baby moving, so I told DH to hold his hand on top, it took a while but the baby started to kick. This is our 4th togehter but it always makes him feel good to feel his baby. Im sure he would have felt it sooner but there is to much going on in the house sometimes for me to run tell him. While we are talking about this how does your baby feel when you feel he/she move? It seems like I should know but I always forget. I feel something at the very bottom of my belly, its hard to explain. Its not kicking or the baby turning. Its a funny feeling, almost like the baby pulling on something. Do you feel this? Also do you fall to sleep fast? As you can see its almost 4am and Im still up. Each time I get PG my legs jump in the night, its the worst pain ever. It will make me cry. My DR gave me some pills for it but they dont work. It keeps me up, if I try to sleep they will not stop moving. It use to be 2 to 3 times a week, but now its everynight. I have to come to another room so DH can sleep, the move and jump so much they wake him up but they have me in tears. I have tried warm baths, heating pads but nothing will work. If you or anyone else reading this has had this happen to them please tell me how to stop it. Well I have to try to get sleep, I have to get up at 6:45 and get my 3 year old ready for pre-k. Pray I can get a little sleep. Its not that Im not sleepy, my legs hurt so much I cant. I know I dont get enough rest, and I run after my 1, 2 and 3 year old all day. Dh has been so good to work from home so this helps out. My DR also gave me sleeping pills but they dont do anything either. Ant help please!!!!! You all take care and hope you all are doing well. Khadija
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DH, and I took the kids to the mountains this past weekend.. I am not ready to be home. It was beautiful and so peaceful. We figured before I got too far along we would are our trip. My OB doesn't like his patients to be more than an hour away after 7 months. I am 15 weeks today. It seems to be going so fast.
My head is coming back to normal, I still have a bit of short term memory, Dr. assures me that with a hit as hard as I took it is normal and after about 2 weeks it should be back to normal; although my teachers don't seem to care to much about it, they are still giving out test. I am still pretty worried about the baby due to the CAT scan. I have an appointment on the 19th and the OB and I will discuss the slim possibilities of any issues it may cause. I pray that paprika will be ok and that the Lord protected him/her during the scan. I can promise I prayed the whole time...
Hope everyone else is doing ok and enjoying their baby bumps.. Speaking of bumps I am feeling Paprika move so much more.. not very strong but absolutely it is the baby and I am so excited. I just wish that Matt could feel his baby move around. I love it so much I have felt it before but he has never experienced that in his life. I don't remember so you ladies farther along than I am when could you feel your baby move on the outside?