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Thank you. I think I will see a RE. It had been 5 months since my D&C so I don't know what went wrong. I'm praying for everyone, my self included, hoping we all get the blessings we're asking for very soon. Thank you ladies so much again. I wouldn't know where to start if it wasn't for you.
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I had a D&C in July 07, after finding out that my pg was no longer viable. I was 10 weeks pg, but both babies measured right at 7 weeks. After the D&C, I waited one complete cycle and got my sticky BFP in Sept 07. My TR baby Carly was born May 13, 2008. I didn't do anything special, but I did wait out the one month. I wanted to make sure I healed after having the procedure.
I second seeing the RE, there maybe something small that is causing your recurring m/c. A full battery of tests and such might show something that can be easily corrected or overcome.
I pray for healing and peace, and hopefully your next BFP will not be long in coming.
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Hi. I'm so, so very sorry for your losses. I just wanted to say that I did have this happen when I was younger. I haven't had to have a D & C since my surgery, but my very first pregnancy when I was 17 ended in a m/c. I was about 4 1/2 months pregnant, so they had to do a D&C. I was so devastated, but this happened on July 5, 1993, and my son's (my oldest) due date was July 5, 1994. I apparently got pregnant very quickly after the D&C, and everything was fine. After that I never had any trouble until the m/c following my TR, but I'm just thinking it probably takes our bodies a bit to get back into the swing of things. I hope this helps some, I just wanted to let you know everything CAN work out fine. Just keep on believing your miracle is coming!! Again, I'm really sorry about your babies. Take care of yourself!!
Thank you so much, your response really means a lot to me. I read something about taking baby aspirin but didn't know exactly what it was for. I did buy some though, just haven't taken any. I never thought it would be this hard. For some reason I thought I would get pregnant when it was time and deliver a healthy happy baby. The nurse told me if I miscarried it was for a reason. So Jen you are right, that's exactly how I will look at my situation. Thank you for the advise. I guess I need to do some more research. Jen did you do anything in particular after your miscarriages?
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GaPch, I had my TR in June 07, got a bfp in Sept 07 that ended in an early m/c, got a bfp the next month in Oct 07 that ended with the metho shot and a D&C.Got another bfp in Feb 08 and that one ended with my beautiful TR baby girl being born in Oct 09. I am currently pg with TR baby #2 and am due in Feb 10. We had no losses between #1 and #2 thankfully. The way that I personally deal with the losses, because it is always hard, is that I tell myself that those weren't the babies that God meant for me to raise and take care of. I love them, but they for some reason or another needed to be with him rather than here with me. Olivia and her sister that I am carrying are the babies that I was meant to raise. I know that may not make sense to everyone but its the way that I deal with it.
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GaPch, I'm sorry for your losses. Many women go on to get pregnant after a D&C. You may want to consider going to an RE to be tested to see what may be causing the M/Cs. It could be something that simply taking progesterone or baby aspirin could resolve. Hang in there, even though it's hard, because the next one could be your sticky bean and worth all the heartache.
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GaPch, I've not been through this but you heartbreak touched me I hope you get your answers and I truly hope you get your sticky bean! God bless! Your also in my prayers
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I am so very devastated. I had my tr in February '09. I got my first bfp in April unexpectedly. At 7 almost 8wks they said my baby didn't have a heartbeat and scheduled me for a D&C. I got another bfp October 8th and was surprised, excited, and nervous at the same time. I started spotting last week and lost my baby on Monday. I keep playing everything over and over in my head. Wondering what went wrong, did the D&C have anything to do with it, is my body not ready, all of the above. I don't have anyone who can truly relate to my situation and I knew you ladies would understand. Don't get me wrong, I am amazingly blessed and grateful that I am able to get pregnant (Thank you so much Dr. Berger and CHTRC staff). It's just so very painful and devastating to lose a baby. It almost makes me not want to try again. But if I don't I'll never know if I will one day get my miracle baby. Has anyone ever gotten a sticky bean after having a D&C? Sorry for the long story, I'm just heart broken right now. Hope you can understand. Thank you so very much for listening...I'll be keeping all of you in my prayers. Good luck and "sticky" baby dust to all!!!
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