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Just an update were on day 28 and still no AF, I'm still not testing considering since the miscarriage my AF went from 28 days to 31 and one month 33 days. I can't stand to know I had a BFP and then my AF shows up. I'm going to wait until Friday and if no AF by then I'll test.
OMGOSH- COuld that be the answer to my pronblem???? I took fertaid last month and had a 21 day cycle (so short!) and I wasn't sure I even Oed - THEN this month I watched the CM signs and I believe that was CD16- only to fin d6 days later I was spotting... that lasted a few days (not a lot) and then nothing... CD28 still nothing so i tested and got a BFN... CD31 still not sign of AF tested again -- BFN... SO here I am sititng thnking what is going on here... I have been BFing my 14 month old ag AF started when he was nine months old... everymonth the same ol same until last month... AND I am now weaning him so I am down to only once or twice a day- nothing more.... (with bfing) SO does anyone think or have any thoughts as too what could be going on here??? I just want AF to come so I can get to trying to catch that little egg!!!!
Think it is the Fertaid??? That I took- I only took one month of it.... Let me know what ever you all think
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I had my TR on 6/18/08 and have not been on the boards in ages but am inbetween laundry loads right now and had a minute... My suggestion is to NOT bd every day during your fertile week. I saw an OB/GYN years ago when trying to conceive my 1st child and she said to only bd every other day so that the sperm has time to mature. That worked for me 4x and then after tr, we got pg the next month bd'ing every other night. The times in my life that I was really "eager" to have a baby and bd'ing daily, it never worked. Just a thought. Good luck to all, your time will come!!!
In my first 5 months before my positive preggo test, I was doing exactly what you were doing with no avail. I was getting so harried. I even went to a Repro Endo and basically he told me to STOP!! He said that trying hard is what hinders the process. I did the Fertaid and if you know you ovulate, don't buy it. It hindered my ovulation. I found the Instead cup to be useless. Primrose oil didn't do anything either. I found the OPK's are unreliable since I could not read them and instead opted to do the Clearblue monitor. It opened a 6 day window and what we did was get away for a few days and BD one day for those 6 days.
Sure enough. We hit the nail in the head.
I feel the more you do, the less it works since you can't rule out what doesn't work.
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Diane if it does not work or it is something you do not want to do again you can look in a wellness doctor. There are many natural things out there that are easier on your baby that can help. Just thought I would let you know. Hang in there.
Shakeya thank you. I am on CD-2 on my 3rd cycle after the MC and things are going great. My cycles have went back to every 27-29 days after the MC. I am sorry to hear about your MC in June. I hope you get great news soon. Miranda
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KTJr I have 2 children and my husband has none. We had the TR on 3/24/08 and did not see a BFP till July 09. Tell him it just takes time sometimes. We had a MC on 7-29-09 but we know it can happen. Hang in there. Miranda
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Shakeya: Good luck and keep us posted!! I have a doctor's appointment today. I think he is going to tell me that I am not ovualting but we will see. Who knows. He checked some things this month and I am anxious for 3:00 to get here so I can see what he found out. GRRRRR!!
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Yeah well my AF is due in 5 days and I refuse to do a pregnancy test. Only because I'm tired of getting BFN, so I'm waiting to on AF before I do anything. Those $10 and 20 dollar test are getting expensive.
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I have other children, my DH has none. We tested him and he is fine, but with two months going by and no BFP, I worry that he might blame himself. It is early, and we were in that same fairy-tale world that we would get pregnant immediately. It will happen. cdb - as hard as it is, try to stay busy and not obsess over it. Think of the baby gift for yourself as your goal. Goals are healthy things :-)
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Hey guys I'm with you, I have tried it all from the royal jelly, primrose oil, I've even tried the soy, and sill no BFP. I had my surgery 5/12/09 I received a BFP in June but it ended in miscarriage. I O'd on the 19th of this month, and AF is due on the 2nd. I'm tired of trying because it gets more and more disappointng every month. I almost hate to see people with babies because I can't have one OMG it drives me crazy. I am trying so hard to keep the faith, but i feel like the tme its taking to concieve is ridiculous considering the surgery time. It took an hour to reverse but years for the baby, thats crazy.
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Diane, I cried when i read your last post. I cant speak for Neva but I think of both of you often as well. I too lived in a fairy tail thinking we would all get prego right out of the gate. I Have come to terms with the fact that isn't true. I am so glad I met both of you and that I have two friends to take this journey with me. I hope and pray one day all six of us will cross paths again on purpose. I could believe how well all of us hit it off! It had to be gods will. I will continue to pray for you both and when we get our BFP we will take the journey together too! You and Neva have a special place in my heart! Lots of baby dust to both of you!! Beverly
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