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I'm new here...hoping to have the money to get a TR in March 2010. I had a Tubal Ligation in July 2009 at the time of the c-section birth of my son, Ian. My husband and I only wanted one child together, so we decided on the tubal. Funny thing, I instantly regretted it. The day after I had it, I was sorry. Maybe it was a premonition. Tragically, on September 5th 2009 my precious boy passed away from a brain tumor. It was totally out of nowhere...he was happy and healthy and perfect for eight weeks. So now, not only are we mourning our son, we are mourning the possibility that we will not have a child together.
After much discussion and soul-searching, we decided to have a tubal reversal. Although I am now 41, I don't have any fertility issues. One year ago I got pregnant the first month we tried. So, I'm hoping that getting the reversal will do the trick. We don't have the money for IVF - plus, I would rather not deal with all the medication.