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in-Gods-hands
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Thank you Lynn. I will have my money for my TR this Friday and if my date is still waiting on me we will be headed to CH in March. Can't wait. Miranda
pghtwins
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Miranda... There is hope. I had my Tl 5/06 two months later I felt horrible!!! I was told by my doctor it would help my endometriosis I believed him! Well Dr. Berger saw endometriosis on my ovary when he did my TR. Needless to say TL did not prevent endo! I want you girls to know after my TR on 8/23/07 I feel Great! It has almost been 6 months and every month I feel better. My AF is still not regular but that might take time. I had six Doctors tell me my problems were not from tl, lucky for me [Smile] I did not believe them. We know our bodies better than anyone! Take care, Hope you can have a TR soon. Lynn [Love]
2girlsmama
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Hello everyone
I'm new, I have posted a couple things.Some of my symtoms are:
Mood swings
Crying spells(for no apparent reason)
I had heavy periods, but have been on BC for year.Had my TL in 2006 after 2nd DD.
Anger issues
Bad PMS which I have not ever had.
Memory lapses like a brain fog.
For 9months after TL kept losing/gaining same 5 lbs.
I am a lifetime member w/ WW, and since have got baby weight off.I know now that there is no way I would of got the weight off w/o the hormones.

I want to ring my OB's neck.I absolutely loved them, until this point of finding out about PTLS.I know I wanted the TL, cuz DH and I thought we were done.Started to question whether to reverse it, found this site and all you great posters.I'm just angry cuz I feel like they have to know this is a possiblity, why not just throw it out there, so we can be informed. Sorry so long.Still considering the TR not only to have another DC, but for relief.
Sherry
in-Gods-hands
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I want to say thank you to all the lady's posting on here that have had there TR. It gives me great hope that once God blesses and we can get the TR that I will once again be my self. This week is my AF and I was sitting here thinking of all the things that have been going on with my body that did not happen before the TL. I love reading things the bring hope. Thank you all once again. Miranda
mama12
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5 day AF start to finish girls, that's all I have to say...

[Smile] It works and it's consistant since my TR.
carolinagirl
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I had my TL July 2004. I have seen such a change in my body. I have terrible periods (bleeding badly), lots of pain, vertigo, cramps, PMS (that I never had before), lower back pain and just not feeling like I did before the TL. I am so looking forward to the TR and possibly 2 more little ones!!!
mama12
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Thank you Miranda. That's so sweet. We are doing ok I just miss him so.
I swear it's going to work, you know how bad the housing market is right??? It's horrific especially in the Western NY area, my grandfather is 85 years old and is a realtor and he sold that house. Seriously everything was against us with that house sale and it was sold with the first contract I made with him and his realty co.. The houses next door were and have been for sale for 3+ years. Mine went so fast....
I'm telling you when it's time it's going to happen it will all line up perfectly...

I'm sure you've heard of that tax rebate thing, if you, your DH, your dad and your mom all got it that is $3200 alone... that's going to make a huge difference. You all have to work, I would talk to your dad about it see what he knows, but between the 4 of you if you all work, it's going to come. They are saying in May but maybe you guys will get enough sooner to do it sooner.
You'll see it will happen.
My email is classicpartsmart at yahoo.com if you ever want to email. I'm on the internet pretty much on and off all day I work on here.
in-Gods-hands
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Mama12 I am so sorry about your dog. I lost my dog over 2 years ago now and I still cry when I see a picture of her or think of her. But please do not beat yourself up over it. There is a reason for everything and why it happened. My DH added another dog to our family when him and I were dating. I really did not want one because it had not been a year yet after Buttons had passed. But I will say I am very thankful for Nash now. He has won my heart over. I even gave in and he lives with us in the house now. I take him every where I can with me. My DH asked me if I was taking his dog?
Thank you for your words about blind faith. I have realized that is what I am living on and it is not bad at all, it is great. We got down to where we had no money and would you know God moved out of no where I had money to put gas in the car and get some things we needed. My parents said they would help pay for the TR out of their taxes. Not sure how much they are going to get back but my dad is starting to get all worked up over the idea of another baby. I may not make it to have a March TR like I wanted but I feel that God is going to bless as you say and it will be this year, maybe even April. I will be praying for your family and your loss. If you are like us your pets are part of the family. If you ever need to talk my e-mail is ranisheets23@yahoo.com . Miranda
mama12
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In god's hands you are absolutely right, God will provide.
My dog got hit by a car, they said he needed surgery, we have no $ and are in rough financial shape, so we put him to sleep. Well yesterday 2 days later... I got 2 jobs that would've paid for it. We would still be completely broke but the dog would be here we would've been no worse off... I learned the hard way to not doubt and have faith. I just bawled the whole way home it was just horrible. Cried and prayed my dog and God would both forgive me. Promised I would never, ever be so stupid again.
My bank account now will not be negative it will be 0 but not negative for the first time since Nov.... It's been really really rough for us here. That's why I did it. So sad though.
I will NEVER ever do that again.... Never in a million years, it was wrong and I know it. I screwed up really badly, in not having faith.

Lesson learned???? Have faith. Even if it seems like blind faith, and stupid, even a little scary in some situations, adverse to all that is going on, it will work out.
You will get your TR, and about anything you need, the money will come some how some way on a random breeze your way. Just keep strong and hopeful and keep the faith. It will come right when it's the perfect time. God provides us with everything we need. Don't like to preach but it is so true.
Please say a prayer for him in heaven, he is a true guardian of children always was...

When you get your TR funding post to everyone!!! Can't wait to hear, you'll see! Watch what the winds blow your way it will work out somehow girls!
rubystar999
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Tiffany,

I had my t.l. in 2001. since then I had kidney stones, Bad facial lesions. and Heavy periods with swelling of the body. My vision changed and I would have partial eye black outs. I had numerous tests done. MRI, Cat scan etc. No doctor could tell me what was wrong. I had a ablation done to fix the heavy bleeding it worked for a while. Now i'm sorta normal. I take medication to regulate all that but I finally figured out that all this pain and anguish was due to the tl.( All because I had stumbled across this website.) I'm only 26 and I shouldn't of had to go through all that. [Mad] I know that I can now fix my future and not rely on medication. I want my life as a whole woman back. and I'm looking to a tr in march or may.

I do not recommend any women get a tl ever. it's just not natural for the body. I should have known. after my tl in 2001 that it was a bad idea. I had a dream of baby hands trying to reach out of my tummy but couldn't. To me it was a sign of some sort. I can't wait to get my tr and being me again . also with the new possibility of having a [infant] .
in-Gods-hands
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If you have good children books and stories that are christian you can call focus on the family.They help you with all kinds of info you may need. Miranda
Me I do not have time. I am take full time classes right now, full time mom/wife, I do the paper work and planing for the church, and this term is my co-op work. My church family is behind me on getting my TR but our church is just starting out so they do not have funds to help pay for anything right now. But their prayers are really what I need rigth now cause God will fill the need.
mama12
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Gwen I really need help in that writing area like where to submit? Especially for my little kid monster stories. I have some really good ones can you help?
momto10
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I got my money from a religious charity group. I can't list it specifically (not enough funding to go around as is) BUT if being open to life is part of your formal religion, you should look into it.
Another way to go is to do some free lance writing. If you had one article published every other month, you would have enough money at the end of a year. The problem is that writing is a competative business and you'de have to submit 10 times that amount, just to actually get that much published.

Gwen
in-Gods-hands
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Tiffany Pate
I am so happy for you. I am still hold faith in God that he will work things out for me to be able to get a TR in March of this year. I love the verses. One of my favs in Gal. 6:3 Bearing one another troubles is what it is about. I carry others to the Lord in Prayer. I have a prayer book and I have all most 3,000 wrote down in it now. I can not wait to hear how your trip goes. If you have not yet go to the waiting room and post and they will add your name to the waiting list. Hang in there. Through Christ all things are possible. Miranda
ME-27
DH-21
DS-7
DD-4
TL-10/20/03
I live in NC.
heavenlycreation
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Just popping in to say that I'm comin to North Carolina!!!! Thank You God!!! My TR surgery is scheduled for Feb. 4th. I'm so excited and humbled at the way the Lord performed the circumstances for me that I would be able to get the surgery done so soon, and of course thankful for my mother who is lending me the funds and coming to NC w/ me.

Dr. Berger, I'll see you soon! [Smile]

Tiffany Pate

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Psalm 71:
20 You, who have shown me great and severe troubles,
Shall revive me again,
And bring me up again from the depths of the earth.
21 You shall increase my greatness,
And comfort me on every side.


Psalm 57:
1 Be merciful to me, O God, be merciful to me!
For my soul trusts in You;
And in the shadow of Your wings I will make my refuge,
Until these calamities have passed by.

2 I will cry out to God Most High,
To God who performs all things for me.
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