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Christbride, I recieved my BFP 12 DPO.... I tested 2days prior to that & received a BFN. Until something told me to test one more time, & there it was, a FAINT (+).. I almost fell out !!
In-Gods-hands, thx so much....lol as for my DH, he is so besides himself....You'll think this is his 1st & we already have 3 together...
So far so good, I'll keep you all posted.
Thank you ladies so much for checking in w/me. I TRULY do APPRECIATE ALL the LOVE, THOUGHTS, & WELL WISHES... Keep them coming. I so need it..
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Ms Licia I am hoping everything is going well your way. I popped in to read what I missed the past few days. I had mid-term yesterday. I just love the thing about your husband walking on water. That line made my day. Prayers still coming your way. Miranda
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You'll be just fine either way you are in the right place. Even in the horrible waiting part... UGH that is THE worst part!!! I swear! Wow so you'll be due in November?? I'm intentionally trying for another Christmas baby- am I nuts??? LOL It's the best present in the world though I swear!!! Just one BW at a time take it easy it doesn't take long to to find out so that's the good thing! Just relax through it and let God do his work. It makes it better that way. All the worrying isn't going to change a single thing. IT's a waste of energy when you can do something a lot more fun. In the meantime just rest and eat and do fun things that help you relax. It works like a charm, distractions are awesome!!! A good book a project, stuff to alternate between to pass the time. Makes it nice.
When are you getting your 2nd BW done?
Congratulations Bonnie on seeing it nice and nestled in!!! I'm very happy for you!
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YAY! Congratulations! I'm so happy for you! We'll both be due in November! I had my first ultrasound today which showed the little sac tucked neatly in the uterus.... I pray you'll find the same. Hugs, Bonnie EDD 11/6/08
You are so right & reading this made me cry. It indeed is in GOD's hands, but what can I say, I am human. I've waited for this moment for 1yr & 2mos. I would hate for anything to be/go wrong.
At the same time, I'm being realistic, atleast I'm acknowledging the possibility of an EP or CP. By no means am I trying to be or want to be negative. I'd rather be this way than to get my hopes way up only to be disappointed later. So I'm at that 50/50 mark where one half has taken over the other half.
But I do thank you for your post & kind words. I so definitely appreciate your letting me know that you are there. Believe it or not, I truly DO NEED you all right now. I'm an emotional mess.
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Ms Licia the best way to take a new BFP is one BW at a time with cautious optimism. Do what you are supposed to but try and stay grounded. One BW at a time like the AA thing they say. One day at a time. There's the other one too: Let go and let God. I'm not in AA but I see the bumper stickers around and you know it's some really good advice, for all of life. It makes it easier. Rest, eat right, do everything on your end. I've seen lots of good BFP's on here! So they do happen there's quite a few actually! With my EP I knew, I just knew it wouldn't go well. I had just had TR surgery got Pregnant immediately after, then had a MC then got preg again!!!! We tried to be careful w/ condoms but the 1st time we BD'd after the MC it broke, what luck huh? But that's what was supposed to happen I don't know why. Regardless with the 2nd one I knew. I was so weak still not in anyway any good shape to be preg. Dr. said my tube was too small they had to take it out. Anyway, we are now TTC again We are over it as best we can be, and know what we've got to do. BW BW BW BW. and US US US and we are ready. Just know that even if it doesn't go well as long as you follow protocol you can try again and it's NOT the end of the world.
Who knows chicky you might have yourself a perfect one I'm wishing you the very best. From the heart, taking it one BW at a time is the easiest less stressful way to do it. We didn't tell anyone with the 2nd one, only my brother and his wife for the baby sitting, and the kids, we are an hour away from Dr's here. With the surgery, there was simply no hiding it.... It was obvious. My girls knew, they knew all of it. We are too remote here to hide things like that, it's too much of an episode when I get preg. the time gone getting BW makes it obvious something is seriously up. Especially when I'm couch bound. They are good with it, they knew all the mechanics of it, I drew them a diagram so they could understand fully what is going on. They are not dumb and intelligent enough to get it. They are 12 and 8. They know this last try may go well or it may not, we are all prepared. If they were 3 or 4 I could try and hide it but at their ages, it's just not going to happen. Your best bet is to tell who needs to know and go from there. Take it easy. It's stressful but you've got us here, we understand how it is, with TR we are a little bit different now. Eat right and rest and relax, let your body do it's job. I'm wishing you the very very best. Let us know what you BW is ok?? You too Sharon!!!
Good or bad we are here for you. I know my friends and family have no idea how it is, they haven't had TR. I'm the first one do dare to do it! We are TTC so I should be there with you guys soon on the BFP side, give me about 15 days I'm excited to try again.
Don't stress it's not worth stressing, take it one thing at a time, just do what you can to make it good and let God take care of the rest. It's out of our hands totally, God is in control now. I'm hoping and praying the best for you both!
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