First off, Congrats to you sweetie and to all the April Ladies on your TR's! Sorry for buttin in but saw your post, and you know if you need help then I'm here for ya... Due to everyone's cycle lengths and history are different... you should be able to take a HPT at around 12-14 DPO. Are you charting and monitoring 'O'? Toni was correct with her post below. Late AF's have occured with many different ppl after TR. Others have had AF come earlier. For most, it does take our bodies time to adjust after TR. Keep your chin up, I know it can be very hard at times.
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Hello Ladies, How is everyone doing. i am about to go crazy. tested again this morning bfn and still no af. no signs of af. my bb are so sore and tender to the touch. i really dont know what is going on. i could be worrying for nothing. maybe it is to early to test. last af 4/7/08 and 1st time bd after was 4/16/08. so do u think it is to early to test. well gotta run. ttyl leann
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Thanks Miranda. No offense to Dr. Berger but I'm so sick of doctors I'm going to wait this one out! LOL. After my surgery I think I've been to my doctor three times already for the stomach bug, for my allergies, etc. Enough is enough.
smanolo (sorry if i spelled that wrong) - when are we testing for O? My temps are just all over the place this month though i think maybe it's because I wasn't consistent waking up on time over the weekend.
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Boston I did have that till everything healed better. Today I am having pains like little needles going across the top in my surgery line. It is nothing bad just to where I notice it. Not sure if it is where AF is going to start or something else. They are not slowing my down today though so that is a good thing.I will be praying for you,if you are really worried call your doctor and let them know. Miranda
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miranda that is so exciting! I'd be on pins and needles!
Question for all - does anyone have slight pain on either side or both sides at times? It feels literally like I have a string attached to my tubes and when I cough the string pulls hard and strangles my urethra (or whatever the hole you pee out of is called).
I've never felt that before. Only other thing similar was when I had a bladder infection , but then it got progressively worse, not just once in a while. It almost feels too like I'm constantly having those ovulation pains.
Anyone have anything like this or am I the odd duck?
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srmanolo1019 No my husbands sperm count has not been tested yet. We only had the physical and found out about the low testosterone levels. If I do not get pregnant within the next few months that will be our next step. I mean this was never a problem before since we have 3 boys and I got pregnant with ease. I am just trying to have a positive outlook on this I mean GOD got me this far I only have to have faith in him now.
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Miranda that is great to hear. Just be sure to keep us posted and remember you are in our prayers! Yesterday and today I had high peak days using the monitor so DH and I were busy all day! I sure hope this is the month for us. If not I guess we will keep trying until I get a BFP. DH keeps saying this is the month so my fingers are crossed. Have a great morning ladies!
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Hi lady's I tested yesterday. 2 of them one was a BFN and the other a very very light BFP.I mean you can hardly see it at all. So the plan is to wait till Wednesday to see if AF has showed. If not test again. We were not TTC as you all know. The doctor said we could after this next AF,lol. So prayers are very welcome here. I hate waiting and not having clear answers. This morning I do feel like I may start today. So I will keep you all posted. Either way it is a good thing here. Either we all ready are blesses with a little one or we get to TTC after the next AF stops.We just want what God's plan for us is. Miranda TR-3-24-08
I don't want to butt in, but I like to check in on everyone from time to time. I was reading your posts about having late AF's. I had my TR 3/26/08 and my last AF was 8 days late and it was agonizing. I kept taking HPT's and even went in for a blood test just to be safe. They all came back BFN. I called the CHTRC because I thought something may be wrong with me and the nurse told me that up to the first four months my AF's could come on time one month and be late or early the next. She also said it was not unheard of to even miss an AF. I am not saying this is the case for all of you. You should definitely test the first day after a missed period and probably every few days after that until you are sure you are not PG. I am saying that an early, late or missed period for the first four months is apparently not abnormal and no need to assume right away that there is something wrong. If you ever have any questions you are more than welcome to jump over to March 2008 thread. We will try to answer your question if we are able. Just trying to help.
Miranda, I hope to see you back there when you are ready to start TTC or anytime.
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Miranda, If you are already late for AF, you could test now. No need for a 2ww. You can test as soon as first missed af. TEST ALREADY!!! I hope that you get whatever results you are praying for. I guess it really is God's choice , WHEN these things are going to happen. God bless
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Leann I will keep you in my prayers. I still have not seen AF. I am worried cause we were not even trying yet. I am not usually late so I am in the wait right now. Maybe AF will show for me later today. I hope you all have a great afternoon. Miranda
Boston I looked to for a board I can not find one. So me and some others just e-mail each other things we do not want to post in here.
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Happy Monday ladies! I hope those waiting to get their AF either get it or get a positive pregnancy test soon! That must be sooo frustrating to not get AF and yet get a neg on a preg test. I'd be pulling my hair out!!!! Not sure if the surgery would have messed up your cycle or not but mine was right on time once I went back and calculated it.
I'm getting excited about BD'ing. We already started to practice. Does anyone here belong to a fertility message board that is less public than this? I've been looking for one lately but other than ivillage, which isn't private, I can't seem to find any that I get really into.
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Hello, Hope everyone had a Great Mother's Day. I am sitting wondering how come af hasn't started. I know af came day of surg(4/7/08) and it was a reg af. it lasted 5 days as always. i don\'t know if i could be preg and the test are showing neg or af is messed up since the surg. I'm gonna wait and test again around 16 or 18. that will put me at 10days late. i am just worried. Ladies hope you all have a great day.. Lots of Baby Dust to all. Leann
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Lady's I hope you all had a great Mothers Day. Well still no AF for me. Not really sure what is going on. I have been temping and mapping my cycles before surgery and it has all ways started, lol. So now I am on pins and needles waiting. Waiting is something hard for me to do,lol. I hope you all have a great start to your week. Miranda