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Hi Babybird, thanks for the info, and yes, the pill does act to prevent ovulation, but my research shows that it also works by effecting the lining of the uterus, thereby preventing a fertilized egg from attaching properly. Coming from a 'fanatic religious' person, yes I am an honest to goodness Jesus freak, lol, this is something for me to consider. I'm not ruling it out and I do appreciate your info. Thanks
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Birth control pills prevent pregnancy by supressing ovulation. They achieve this by means of hormone manipulation and do it quite effectively.
Any website that has made the absurd claim that birth control pills are an "aborticide" is likely nothing more than a fanatic religious group using the terminology to instill guilt and fear in people.
The pill is a fantastic option for many women and has a lot of positive effects, one of which is a significant decrease in your risk of developing ovarian cancer. This is because of it's effect of SUPPRESSING OVULATION.
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I have a 5 month old and got the Mirena IUD at 8 weeks post pardom....I had it removed 5 weeks later due to a pelvic infection and bad bleeding that started with the placement of the IUD and lasted the full 5 weeks that it was in ...I stoped bleeding as soon as the IUD was removed. we have decided that maybe god has other plans for us and birthcontrol was not an option lol.lol..We cought the first eggie after TR and are hoping to cathc the first one this time as soon As I O....(I'm still brestfeeding)...If I get PG cool and if not then I am happy with my sweet little Madelynn... Angel
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Louise, Thank you for the advise, and yes, that is a very big consideration for me. I am going to talk to my dr. about all of this and thankfully, I know she shares my views and beliefs. So, We'll see what we finally come up with. Thannks,Lisa
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I don't know how many of you have done research on bc pills, but in my research I have found out that bc pills do not prevent pregnancy...they prevent implantation. Not to discourage any of you, but they are an abortiside. If you ask your doctor the truth about them, they may be honest with you...but when noone asks, they don't offer the info. All the things I just read on Lisa's post are also a list of symptoms that progesterone takes care of. Though that does not prevent pregnancy. I'm not a believer in bc myself, but I realize everyone has to deal with that in their own minds and hearts. We obviously are all different, and thank God for that, where would this world be if we all thought the same!! Don't even want to imagine the caos...hahaha.. I do know of a few women that were on bc for many years and when they finally decided to TTC they could not get pregnant. I'm not sure it is the safest thing is all I'm trying to point out. Praying you find what is best for you!! Louise
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Lisa I just got the Marena IUD today the Dr said that if you have a history of ectopic you should not have it but my Dr said I don't have a history I am just at risk because of the TR so it was OK for me to use the IUD. But in your case you are going to be trying to get pregnant soon so that is not for you. Probably the best thing for you is condoms for now so you don't have to wait for anything to get out of your system before trying again. Hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck getting pregnant with a keeper very soon!!!
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Here's what I found about Mirena . . . . . Candidates for Mirena® have had a child, are in a stable relationship, and have no risk or history of ectopic pregnancy or pelvic inflammatory disease. Mirena® does not protect against HIV or STDs. Ovarian cysts may occur and typically disappear. Complications may occur from placement. Missing periods or irregular bleeding is common in the first few months, followed by shorter lighter periods.
So that's pretty much out!! I have both history & risk.
Hmmmm This is what I found about bc pills . . . .
Advantages of combination pills:
reduces risk of ovarian cancer and endometrial cancer
prevents ectopic pregnancy (pregnancies that occur outside the uterus, usually in the fallopian tube)
decreases menstrual blood loss and pain and cramps
less severe premenstrual symptoms
more regular menstrual cycles
improves acne
prevents bone density loss in women who have attained their peak bone mass (generally women over 30)
less risk of ovarian cysts
improves excessive body hair, particularly on the face, a condition called hirsutism
improves endometriosis
improves symptoms of rheumatoid arthritis
beneficial effects on cholesterol (HDL and LDL)
decreases benign breast disease or breast cysts
reversible with quick return to fertility
treats the emotional and physical symptoms of premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD), a severe form of PMS. Only one combination OC has been shown to be clinically effective for this use. It contains the progestin drospirenone and ethinyl estradiol, a form of estrogen.
That sounds good, but I dunno, No period??? That sounds too good to be true!!!! LOL & then what happens to the lining, does it just keep building, stop building up all together???? I wonder???? ?s to ask my dr., no doubt.
Anyway, just thought I'd share what I found. Especially since my DH would die at the thought of abstinence!!! LOL He's been so spoiled this last year !!LOL He's been great through this whole month of ectopic business, but I can tell it's been hard on the man!! Hehehe OH and condoms, yeah, they don't always work and Yes They do break, my 7 yr. old son is proof of that, so, mama12, I totally understand!!
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my ob/gyn just gave me 2 months samples of loestrin 24fe. But i have to wait until i finish all of these antibiotics that they have em on. until then it is abstinance. better safe than sorry.
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I would do some research about any IUD and ask your ob/gyn. I have heard that if you are at a higher risk for ectopic (which I think we are after TR) then you shouldn't use it.
BTW - I was on the pill for 6 months after my DD was born. Now I am just playing it by ear and leaving it up to God!
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We used abstinance when I O, You are very right in not trusting condoms. I had a MC, used condoms to avoid it to be safe... Well it broke, got pregnant again, it was an EP...
Use BC pills I'm not sure how mirena works, does it have hormones in it?? I know an IUD is ok but not for EP risk, it can still get stuck in your tube. It only prevents the egg from implanting in the uterus.
You really need to wait like your Dr.but it's safer if you wait. You need to heal up and get the shot out of your system completely. I'm so sorry you've had such a hard time, take it from me though DO NOT TRUST condoms.... Been there and done that.... You're better off telling DH no way is he getting near you than using condoms. PS we haven't broken one since, what is UP WITH THAT !!!! LOL I have to laugh it's so ridiculous! Some luck huh? Please post what you find out about Mirena if you could???
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I have a Mirena (sp?) iud that I like, though I'm not sure it does anything to prevent an ectopic pregnancy should a pregnancy occur. It does have a pretty high success rate, similar to the pills, I think.
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I'm wondering, having now had an ec, what forms of birth control are good & or safe to use? I'm not entirely comfortable using/trusting condoms. I'v heard of people using bcpills after tr but does that leave you vulnerable to ec pgs? Of Course, we are not quite at this point yet, & I will be talking to my dr. about this, but, having had 2 metho shots, my dr. has stated she wants us to wait approx. 6 months before ttc again. We are dissappointed, but just wanting at some point soon for life to return to normal. Lisa