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Thank you sooooo much. It feels good to know that what i'm feeling is ok. My DH says i need too just stop stressing myself out about it & just let it happen. Easier said then done. Once again thank you guys. I feel a lot better.
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HI Girly I know what you mean. My DH said the same thing. It took us over 3 years to get the money needed and have the surgery. Then after my TR on 3/24/08 my uterus was weak and we could not TTC. Now with Gods help we have move on to TTC. This is our 2nd cycle trying and I am on CD 32 and keeping the faith. I will keep you in my prayers. If you need to talk you can e-mail me anytime at ranisheets23@yahoo.com . Miranda
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Dear Girly08, As you can see there are many women that feel as you do. It is hard to try and conceive each month. Hopefully there is some comfort knowing that you at least have the chance to try and conceive on your own each month. Unfortunately we can not make anything happen on our own and what is mean to be will be. Hopefully you will find lots of support here and most of all support from your family. I hope that there is a BFP in your future. If you ever have any questions please feel free to contact me. RhondaB@tubal-reversal.net Rhonda
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Girly, you are not crazy! I feel like that already and i just had my TR 7 1 08, and havent even begun to TTC! I get so afraid sometimes. I only have one tube, and it is very very short....When its time, it will be time. But this is a hard thing to be patient for!
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You are not crazy at all, just human. We all have this surgery expecting to conceive right away. I cried every month when AF showed her ugly face. I was finally so stressed that I gave it up. After a 1 1/2 yr of nothing, DH and I accepted that it was not the time for us. Well after 2 1/2yrs from TR I am 7 wks PG. It was the Lord's time, not ours and we are excited for this blessing.
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I had my TR 4/14/08. I know what you mean. Sometimes its frustrating. Some people are fortunate and get pregnant right away and others wait months or years. We all want to be happy for those that get pregnant, but inside those of us still trying are jealous and sad. Don't feel bad, and you're not crazy...many of us feel this way and it is perfectly normal. And don't feel bad about sharing....thats why this forum is here...to support each other going through the same thing. Take care, and keep talking....and sharing...
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I'm new at this & really scared that i wont get PG. My DH said GOD has found away for us to have this done. He didn\'t't bring us this far to leave us. I know he's right,just have to keep telling myself that it will be in HIS time, not mine.Boy is that hard!!!! I had my operation at the end of Feb. 08'. Every month I get my AF. It just breaks my heart. We have children from previous marriages. 4 daughters & 1 son. We have 1 daughter together. My DH has no sons of his own. Just want someone to talk to about all this & to let me know i'm not crazy for feeling this way. Thanks
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